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Originally by Stillness:

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1. Homosexuals are not treated unequally (in relation to who they can marry).
I disagree with this statement. Heterosexuals have a romantic and sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. Homosexuals have a romantic and sexual attraction to members of the same sex. So when opposite-sex marriage is legal but same-sex marriage is not, heterosexuals can marry a person they are romantically and sexually attracted to but homosexuals cannot marry a person they are romantically and sexually attracted to.

So, yes, it's technically true that marriage is equal in the sense that a heterosexual man and a homosexual man can both marry a woman. But it's very unequal in the sense that if the both men entered an opposite-sex marriage, the heterosexual man's marriage is far more likely to end up producing romantic and sexual expression that is fulfilling than the homosexual man's marriage.

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2. They want something different from equality.
Here's an example of current unequal treatment that opposite-sex couples can avoid but same-sex couples cannot.

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Married couples enjoy scores of legal and financial advantages unavailable to gay and lesbian parents, including preferential tax rates, inheritance rights, and the legal recognition of the family without costly court procedures, said Rebecca Rolfe, director of the LGBT Community Center.

Jadallah, 43, and Karraa, 45, felt those inequities directly after Jadallah gave birth to their twin boys. At the time, they lived in Santa Barbara, where she was a graduate student at UC Santa Barbara. They petitioned for Karraa to adopt the twins but were rejected by a judge because they were same-sex partners. (Five years later, after the passage of Assembly Bill 25, they succeeded in cross-adopting all three children.) As a result, Karraa couldn't put the children on her health insurance at work, so Jadallah paid extra to add the boys to her student insurance and sought MediCal for well-baby care. The couple also were turned down for university-owned married student housing, so they paid more to rent an apartment in town.

"The financial impact is still with us today, through larger student loans," Jadallah said. The family lives on Karraa's earnings as a public health nurse; Jadallah is a stay-at-home mom.
This couple would probably be in a government-recognized marriage if they could. The only reason they can't do that is because they are a same-sex couple instead of an opposite-sex couple.

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3. Homosexual relationships are not illegal. Jim Crow laws actually made certain actions illegal.
To be honest, I'm not sure what this has to do with anything. Discrimination is okay as long as it doesn't make anything illegal? It's not discrimination unless it makes something illegal?

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4. There is an objective difference between homosexual unions and heterosexual unions. This is not an arbitrary distinction as in the case of Jim Crow discrimination.
I disagree with this too, on two points.

1. I find no "objective differences" that would favor one kind of union over another. From my perspective, they're exactly the same except for the sex of those involved. And restricting one but allowing the other for that reason seems arbitrary to me.

2. Hindsight is 20/20. We find no "objective differences" between blacks and whites that would merit discrimination of any sort today, but in the era of Jim Crow laws people genuinely believed that whites were a superior race and blacks were an inferior race, and they plenty of "evidence" to support this theory, so segregation and other forms of discrimination weren't prejudicial or arbitrary but rather justifiable. Today we know that the "evidence" was bunk and have trouble understanding why anyone could have possibly believed it. But back then, it made perfect sense that seperate races existed, there were natural differences between them, and that these differences made discrimination acceptable.

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Geneforge 2 Sects you can join in Geneforge Series
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G2 also allows you to remain unaligned. The unaligned ending is fairly similar to the Servant ending, if I remember correctly, but the gameplay can be fairly different.

Dikiyoba usually remains unaligned.

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Dikiyoba believes there's a second Phoenix Egg in Pyrog's Cave that you can grab if you have a gray pass.

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Originally by Safey:

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It angers me that liberals claim to have the poor mans best interest in yet they are more concerned with idiot nitpicking laws then the real issues.
Then what, in your opinion, are the real issues liberals should be worrying about?

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Okay, that's quite enough spam for now, thank you very much.

Dikiyoba's goal is to not start a new thread this time around.

Edit: Typo.

[ Saturday, December 15, 2007 11:19: Message edited by: Dikiyoba ]

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Someone with money, because Dikiyoba doesn't have any. :P

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How big is G4? in Geneforge 4: Rebellion
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G4 has five classes to choose from while G3 only has three. It also has a few new creation types and, in Dikiyoba's opinion, a better engine. No island hopping, action points work differently, and unequipped items no longer count towards encumbrance. So between G3 and G4, Dikiyoba thinks you should get G4.

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Spiderweb Release Dates & Other Stuff in General
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1. There's probably a list somewhere, but now there's one here too.

Exile: January 1995
Exile II: November 1995
Exile III: January 1997
Blades of Exile: December 1997

Nethergate: 1999
Nethergate Resurrection: May 2007

Avernum 1: 2000
Avernum 2: 2000
Avernum 3: 2002
Blades of Avernum: 2004
Avernum 4: 2005/2006
Avernum 5: 2007 (Mac only)

Geneforge: 2001/2002
Geneforge 2: 2003
Geneforge 3: 2005
Geneforge 4: 2006/2007

Dikiyoba is not responsible for the accuracy of this list. Use at your own risk. When opening this list, do not point it at yourself or others. Keep out of reach of children. All sales final.

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Uh, no. Reviving old topics is perfectly acceptable (and in fact encouraged) if the new post directly relates to the subject being discussed. Micro Phage's post is fine.

Dikiyoba.

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Originally by Stillness:

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...and only they make use of the genitalia implied by their form. This makes them naturally different.
May I suggest reading the Wikipedia article on intersexuality? It's weird stuff.

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According to the ISNA definition above, 1 percent of live births exhibit some degree of sexual ambiguity,[19] and that between 0.1% and 0.2% of live births are ambiguous enough to become the subject of specialist medical attention, including surgery to disguise their sexual ambiguity.
Dikiyoba.

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G1. Something about the plot and atmosphere makes it a bit better than the others.

Dikiyoba.

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Originally written by Stillness:
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Originally written by Kelandon:

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Originally written by Stillness:

All opposite-sex marriage is male-female. That is the pairing that is perceived to be ideal.
By you. Given the statistics you cited, same-sex marriage might be even better. We have no idea.
That sounds like an argument from ignorance.

http://www.pastpeak.com/archives/2006/07/marriage_in_mas.htm

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[F]or several years now the Commonwealth [of Massachusetts] has had the lowest divorce rate of any state in the union. [...] [I]n the first two years of legal same sex marriage in the Bay State, Massachusetts showed a more rapid decline and will very likely hold on to its title as the US state with the lowest divorce rate in the nation.

[T]he group of US states...which have passed both state laws and also state constitutional amendments prohibiting same sex marriage, lag dramatically in terms of divorce rate improvement when compared to same sex marriage friendly states. [...] This group contains 4 of the 5 states with the highest divorce rate increases in the US during 2004 and the first 11 months of 2005.
It seems that the attitudes that limit marriage to opposite-sex couples are detrimental when compared to the attitudes that favor extending marriage to same-sex couples. Perhaps our percieved ideals aren't so ideal.

Dikiyoba.

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I'm out of time to respond to anything more at the moment, but:

Originally by Stillness:

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Dikiyoba, I don’t know if you are following, but we’ve established that there are two types of discrimination. One is based on merit, the other is based on prejudicial grouping. White only fountains would be the latter; traditional marriage the former. What you did is equivocation. Some of the others just did it for the zillionth time, too.
No. It's not. It's that latter. It's based on prejudicial grouping. There is absolutely no reason except bias against homosexuality/for heterosexuality to have opposite-sex marriages but not same-sex marriages, just like there's no reason except bias to prevent a homosexual from renting a house or holding a job.

Dikiyoba.

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No. I write it out in my trusty notebook first. Sometimes I rewrite it. Sometimes I rewrite it again. Then I revise it. Then I type it up. Then I revise it again. Then I edit it. Then I edit it again. Then I copy it to my site. Then I proofread it. And then I finally announce it.

Yeah. Dikiyoba does all that.

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Nonsense. Lazarus is permanently dead, for the loose definition of "permanent" in these episodes. He gets a get-out-of-death-free card once per day but he's already used it up.

Nija/Galdoh/7557: Stop disparaging Iffy.

Dikiyoba.

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Do you remember running across an area full of power spirals that did a lot of ice damage to you? You need to turn off all those spirals before West Workshop is cleared.

Dikiyoba recommends shutting down the power while in combat and hasted.

Edit: Curses! Too slow!

[ Monday, December 10, 2007 14:27: Message edited by: Dikiyoba ]

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Originally by Stillness:

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What law is not moral? Give me an example. Maybe it’s just my worldview affecting my outlook, but laws are based on protecting society and individual citizens and that’s all moral to me. We want to live in a fair and just society because justice is good. Yes, it benefits us, but that’s exactly why it’s moral.
But morals become immoral when the laws based on them hurt people who they are supposed to protect. Society will not fall apart if same-sex marriage or civil unions are recognized. But not recognizing it causes hardship and grief for the people who want to marry a specific someone but can't solely because it would result in a male/male or female/female pair instead of a female/male pair. No one benefits from these laws and some people suffer. What's moral about that?

And you know what? If opposite-sex marriages apply equally to heterosexuals and homosexuals, then same-sex marriages apply equally to heterosexuals and homosexuals as well. If two heterosexuals of the same sex really wanted to marry each other, they could.

Dikiyoba.

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Originally by the Ratt:

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Diki: I still don't think you saw what I had to say critique-wise. But thank you very much for getting the next chapter out much quicker.
Dikiyoba saw it both times, actually.

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A Risky Endeavor

Originally by Nikki:

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*Thats* your silver lining?! :P
The silver lining at this point might simply be the fact that Nioca isn't dead. :P

Dikiyoba.

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He's still waiting for FDA approval. :P

Dikiyoba.

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I'm sorry, I'm just having too much fun with the mental images these character bios are creating.

"Hi, I'm Munigant and I... ow! Ow! I hit my head on the doorframe! Why do people build these things so dang low anyway?! Ow! I did it again!"

Iffy: If you want to join, make up a character. A character completely removed from you or any of your gimmicks might be best.

(Bonus points if your character is an obese midget with no fighting skills, no magical training, and a completely unmysterious past. :P )

Dikiyoba.

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Originally by Stillness:

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It’s application is dependant on race. It therefore discriminates. Limiting marriage to opposite sexes does not discriminate in the same way. And you still may not get the partner you want, but you are free to marry whoever will have you.
Well, no. It discriminates based on sexuality rather than race. But that doesn't make it any less discriminatory.

Can you honestly tell me that if you were a heterosexual in a predominately homosexual society in which only same-sex marriage is legal you would be content with "You may not get the partner you want, but you are free to marry whoever will have you."?

Dikiyoba.

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Originally by Nalyd:

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Height: 7'7"
Why? Just why?

Dikiyoba.

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Originally by Retlaw May:

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Well for one thing, the least amount of innocents (or at least people not in the war) are killed.
The Shaper ending results in the death of the fewest innocents, I assume?

Maybe, but intent matters too. There are plenty of Rebels who don't fight: human, servile, drayk, and even drakon a the Shapers have made their intent to kill all sentient non-human species quite clear. For all their other faults, at least the drakons don't have wiping out all humans as a goal. So while the Unbound cause tremendous casualties, at least the rebellion doesn't have the casualties as a goal and isn't guaranteed to keep causing such massive casualties in the future. The casualties that the Shapers cause are intended and would occur again if another rebellion were to occur.

Originally by LakiRa@:

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Because...let me think:In best case you get locked up for half of your life and other half you are exiled, in worst case you get executed.
Big deal. Dikiyoba will still be back as a wobbly, weak-kneed beginner in G5. :P

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Originally by Stillness:

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My point is that saying same sex marriage is not allowed is not the same as having white-only water fountains. The former is not discriminatory as it applies to everyone.
A white-only water fountain applies to everyone too. No one is preventing other races from drinking water altogether. They just can't drink out of that fountain, while whites can. The same goes for [civil] marriage when limited to only between a man and a woman. It doesn't prevent homosexuals from marrying altogether. But it does prevent them from marrying the partner they want (while heterosexuals can marry the partner they want), and that's why it's discrimination.

Dikiyoba.

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