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Originally written by You know who this is:

Besides, I'm generally looked upon as a fat ugly retard, so theres no hope for me

*foghorn*

EDIT: A Stughalfian Principle, how many pages did your comment take up? Couldn't you have written anything longer? lol

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Originally written by You know who this is:

Stop talking about sex before marriage though. It's a completely different subject. We were talking about what sort of girls people like.

Some members stated that they would be most interested in girls that were willing to abstain from sex until marriage. From this, a bit of a debate ensued. It's not all that off-topic, though, so there's no need to blow the whistle.

EDIT: Oh yeah, I remember what I was going to say. The reason that there are all these people not in relationships is because most of the girls think they're too good for everyone else and most of the blokes (myself included) are UGLY! UGLY! I bet I've offended everyone now, but that's what I wanted to say. I think. I'll shut up now.

Perhaps some of the girls here are snooty, and some of the guys are physically unattractive. But one's degree of effectiveness in attracting members of the opposite (or same) sex, as well as maintaining these relationships after they have been formed, is not merely dependent on such considerations. Other factors, such as charm, attitude, personal carriage, and intelligence, seem, for many girls, to be at least as important, cumulatively, as physical beauty in terms of what they look for in a man. In terms of what the majority of men look for in a woman, physical beauty is almost certainly at the top of the list. The other factors, however, are still of undeniable importance. In terms of maintaining an existing relationship, compatibility and flexibility are the most important attributes.

From my own experience, my lack of success at attracting girls has very little to do with my degree of physical attractiveness, and everything to do with certain traits of mine. Although I'm not conventionally handsome, don't shave nearly as often as I should, and am rather scrawny, most people I know find me to be rather good looking. Unfortunately, I lack the ambition and determination needed to break through my natural shyness around attractive women, and hold any more than a standard conversation with one. My inability to flirt, or to make the first move in asking a girl out, often seems to prevent me from making conquests one would think would be within my power to make. So, as you can see, you've hardly given the complicated nature of an all-too common situation the justice it deserves.

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Originally written by Death by a Waveform:

To address the topic at hand... I just know I like someone when I see them, or not. And with time, opinions change. It's silly to generalize about who you like since you really don't know until you've met them.

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Originally written by Aran:

Though I'm sure there are more. At least about a dozen. The time zones will decide.

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Originally written by O_o:

Man, you guys are shallow *shakes head*

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