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All Hail The Chairman in General
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It would be best if you did not do that, really. Inciting e-riots isn't going to get anything done.
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Ash Got Banned... in General
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Ash was banned for an unspecified duration as a result of some comments he made. Whether that was justified or unjustified, it is what has been done.

This is, at its core, an administrative matter. Please, instead of making matters worse (EDF, TM, Djur, Alec), wait a day or two for everyone and everything to cool off. There will definitely be an official response of some sort by then, which will in all likelyhood include what actually happened, why Ash was banned, and how long his ban will persist.

For the four of you I named, consider this a final warning.

For everyone else, realize that Spidweb has not "suddenly changed for the worse", people will not be banned left and right for criticising the games, and the year remains 2006, not 1984. Thanks. :P

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Steve harley help in General
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So, uh, this really isn't the place for music requests, since most of them are unlikely to be legal.
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Karma in General
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I did.
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Language Packs in General
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He said "square". =P
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Thurly Fairy, Fairly Thuryl in General
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And ignoring the insults. (...as you must have by not acknowledging just HOW often you got them. :P ) And then moving on to being annoying far less frequently.
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1000 words - an old fashioned sing-a-long! in General
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Congratulations on your first thousand posts, and a beating for posting a thoughtless posting game.
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Let's Port Bandits~ in Blades of Avernum
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Tentative offer, since I've practically done it once before. I can't really commit either way until Wednesday or so, though.
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"The End of Blades" Discussion in Blades of Avernum
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I nearly met with success in porting Bandits before a hard drive crash, too. :(
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Signatures in General
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I make too many one-liner posts for a signature to be practical.
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What Movies Are You Looking Forward To? in General
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I believe that was stated above.

EDIT: ...or on the previous page.

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Census of Spiderweb community in General
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Age: Dix-neuf.
Sex: J'ai ouang.
Sexual orientation: Je n'aime pas l'ouang.
Highest educational degree completed: Some college.
Racial/ethnic origin: Neither Cuban nor Argentinian.
First/primary language: American English
How long you've been a Spiderwebber: I predate dirt. (About six years or so, I think.)
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Exit Strategy (Realized) in General
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Prediction: Synergy will reach 777 posts the day Djur reaches 1000.
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Originally written by Ephesos:

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Originally written by Slartucker:

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because otherwise there would be some sort of cosmic conflict between the major religions' gods
What is this, Marvel Comics does Religion?

Well, if Christianity's God is supposed to be real, why not the rest of them? Though, now that I look at it, I'm not sure how I arrived at that sentence.


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Originally written by Slartucker:

(Quotes from TM)
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A god that does not appeal to my sense of ration is not worth anything but my loathing.
Maybe I'm misinterpreting here, but isn't this a little harsh? Okay, maybe said god wouldn't be worth your love and adulation. But the natural world doesn't always make sense to us -- even if science suggests that it follows logical rules on some underlying level. Do you hate anything you don't understand?

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I disagree- the Romans/Saxons/etc. were horrible savages before being christianized, and continued to be horrible savages afterwards as well. (Horrible savages just like us.)
Okay, okay, good point.

(Ephesos)
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because otherwise there would be some sort of cosmic conflict between the major religions' gods
What is this, Marvel Comics does Religion?


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quote:
Originally written by Ephesos:

Agh... this spiraled out of control faster than I'd anticipated. Well, this might be a freakishly long post as well...

EDIT: So it was... and I missed a quote tag.

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Originally written by Prometheus:

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Originally written by Ephesos:

In the event of a god, specifically the traditional christian one (omnipresent, -potent, and -benevolent), I think I'd be fine.
I wouldn't be. Any god who sees all and is all-powerful who doesn't immediately change the world for the better by ending the massive amounts of strife in it does not deserve my esteem.

This was meant in reference to the "what if I died and God interrogated me" question, not in general. I'm pretty sure that there's no omnipotent, -present, and -benevolent God, because otherwise there would be some sort of cosmic conflict between the major religions' gods (I mean, if it were true for Christianity, why not the rest?).

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Originally written by Jumpin' Salmon:

Jeff could make money by turning this into a subscription service. Not all of it mind you, but this. Ever since the movie JackAss was released I've found it ever so amusing to see people running full tilt into brick walls.

...

But there is no excuse for 97.1 "The Fish."

Agreed on both points. And "97.1 The Fish" just brings Deliverance music to mind.

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Originally written by Prometheus:

Is humanity itself not enough of a goal for you? That itself is where I find objection with the notion of worshipping. People should be the ultimate achievement of people. A maybe-existant deity should not be the concern of people, lest they be distracted from the main issue at hand- one another.
I wholeheartedly agree. And for the record, that may be one of the most actually inspiring things I've seen TM post.

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Originally written by 7 per day keep the doctor away.:

Ephesos: Lyrics are part of aesthetics. There are songs that would be damaged by having their lyrics turned into gibberish. There are songs that might benefit from lyrics. It just demand lyrics that aren't thrown in at the expense of the music. Then again, I dislike lyrics in general. Give me instrumentals or give me peace and quiet.
I know that, and I didn't mean that most songs could benefit from removing lyrics. I just mean that there are some songs where the underlying melody is more important than the lyrics and vocals, and could probably stand alone. Not all songs, not most songs , but a few.

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Originally written by Synergy:

How does one grow muscles if one never exercises against opposing forces? Does a wise parent want to raise weak, spoiled, passive, untried, ignorant children to grow up and take over the family business? Dad doesn’t fix everything for us as children and make it all better. It wouldn’t serve our interests or help us hack it as adults. He wants us to master ourselves and our environment and learn to get along with our siblings and learn how to esteem each other properly. We won’t fail ultimately though,"
Uh... Khoth kinda pointed to this as well, but there's a difference between a god testing people's abilities and throwing millions upon millions of people into a game they can't possibly win at. As for mastering the environment... well, I won't get into that. That's another full freakin' topic for me. (Though I'd be interested to hear others' opinions)

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Originally written by Synergy:

When we really really admire and love someone, we sometimes say we worship them. We talk about their merits. We seek to emulate them. We do a lot to be with them if we can. This is true worship from the heart, and that’s all I think God as a Father desires...to be adored sincerely for recognition of His qualities.
I'm reminded of this quote from Fight Club: "You have to consider the possibility that God does not like you. He never wanted you. In all probability, he hates you. This is not the worst thing that can happen."

We can love a god all we want, but that doesn't mean that they love us back.

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Originally written by Synergy:

If we seek to usurp authority which we are not yet mature enough to wield, Father does have ways to keep heady children from getting too far ahead of themselves.
So, when are Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell gonna get theirs? I think a lot of us have been waiting for that one...

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Originally written by Synergy:

Well, the cool thing I know about God is He keeps His promises even when we don’t believe into them.
Examples would be nice... otherwise the argument is just so much smoke and mirrors.



This topic is somewhat painful, you know that? And just a little creepy... the full Synergy Theology Manifesto seems to be more than my unholy mind can comprehend. :P

I also wait anxiously to see the more right-wing neo-fundamentalist people to post...

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Originally written by Semodius:

I'm gonna go dance barefoot in a meadow now, happy with my morally strong atheism.
Seconded. :D


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Originally written by Prometheus:

First observation:

I WILL SAY THIS AGAIN. GOD IS NOT MALE. GOD IS NOT A FATHER BECAUSE IT IS NOT MALE. GOD IS NOT MALE. GOD IS NOT MALE.

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From So Incredibly Sad:
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From observation, three emotions drives humanity : lust, greed and hate. If that is anything like your "God" I will continue striving toward being a logical biological machinery.
I'm not sure if you're using this as hyperbole to counter Synergy; if so, I agree. If not, then consider yourself a victim of liberalism.

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Perhaps we are fixated on physical suffering and physical death as the worst (and permanent) experiences and fates to be had, and that nothing could make such suffering worthwhile. Is either actually true?
1. Nobody said that physical pain is the worst type of pain. I used the "hand getting burned on a hot stove" example because it was easy.
2. YES. Nothing can make suffering worthwhile. Suffering is ultimately bad. It is suffering. Perhaps there are times when one person's suffering is superior to an alternate outcome, but it is already a loss when anyone has to suffer at all.

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The nature of God suggests it cannot be true or it negates the nature of Love, Wisdom, being a good Father, and many more things.
If your notions of these rationalize suffering, then to hell with all of them.

I am not saying that suffering cannot be included in the best-case scenario quite often. All I'm saying is that if you ever see suffering as part of the good, then you're wrong.

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There is somewhere we are all heading toward through all of this wretchedness which is a much more hopeful and joyful and fulfilling end than we have yet known.
You still had to back this up before, and you still have to back it up now.

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The way this can be said with any surety is by knowing by experience something of the nature and faithfulness of God and believing the rest of His promises yet unfulfilled. But the promises aren’t even necessary when you come to understand what the character of love does.
This says absolutely nothing.

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I mean that because humanity is growing in its spiritual experience and understanding, it doesn’t have to go back to a Mosaic law or earlier baby steps like black/white thinking and rewarder/punisher views of God which were instrumental in their time and served their purpose.
The Mosaic law? You mean that wretched and vile set of chauvinist, racist propaganda for the jewish male? It should have been burned before it was made. It was a mistake, now and forever.

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I’m speaking from the Christian perspective primarily, because I am most acquainted with knowing God through it, but I don’t discount any other spiritual way God has communicated Himself to and in humanity in other times and places. I think everyone’s on to something, some part of the truth and knowing. The typical error is to assume someone’s something is to be everyone’s everything.
This is saying nothing (again).

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The natural world is seen to parallel spiritual principle and realities.
So you're saying that it's a spiritual reality that it's okay for people to get massacred randomly? Or that it's somehow just for people all around the world to get butchered because of the mistakes of rich white folks?

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We understand something of God’s role as “Father” by knowing earthly fathers. We know something of how spiritual growth is to proceed by observing the laws of natural growth. The universe is ordered this way to be specifically instrumental to our understanding of spiritual qualities invisibly behind all things. Things grow up according to the blueprint within them and the nurturing/nutrients to enable it.
So your argument is that we understand god by understanding the status quo? That makes a very good case for calling your "god" a cultural artifact more than anything else. Or are you arguing for some sort of "archetypal" understanding? (And let it be known that if I ever meet Plato's zombie, I will relish in mutilating it.)

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Well, the cool thing I know about God is He keeps His promises even when we don’t believe into them.
I'm glad that your god has such a marvelous caveat.

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He does stuff on behalf of His children ultimately despite themselves.
You know, you're doing an excellent job of contradicting your saying "god isn't above us" before. Good going.

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Kids are immature, foolish, selfish, and wayward in so many ways. Any good parent does many good things on their behalf despite what the kid thinks or believes about any of it. God doesn’t expect us to act like more than kids while we’re still kids. Spiritually speaking, part of our immaturity has been imagining all kinds of false and simplistic things about Dad and why He does what He does.
So you're saying it's immature to imagine why your deity allows genocide?
If your god exists to discipline people, then there are countless million dead who sincerely wish that he might have been more prompt and decisive about it.

Your god is sounding more and more like a douche, by the way.

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As for what we are to follow, I could only say listen to your deepest heart and see where that leads.
Onanism.

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As for a stated law, we know it’s “Love God with all your heart, and love your neighbor as yourself.” The rule is to be from within, and not from without by external law.
But weren't you just getting done saying how humanity needed that barbaric and sub-human Mosaic law? You mean jewish hearts were spiritually defunct and didn't have the code of morality in them?
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We have our bounds, even when they are invisible to us. The child knows his bounds when he runs into them. It usually hurts.
THEN THE CHILD SHOULD BE TOLD. TO AVOID THE PAIN.

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It’s okay to be an ascetist and it has its rewards and virtues I’m sure.
I disagree so hard, it ain't even funny- they're founded on the notion that humanity just ain't good enough, and to that, I say- "and screw you too."

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Of course. But certainly growth and regression can take place side by side.
Probably true. I just don't see that happening in the status quo.

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But I think that's the point. I don't have the level of faith (philosophically, even) that Synergy appears to have.
Neither do I, and nor do I want to.

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However, the point of religion is not that it's common sense and it's logically provable. The point is that it's not. "Credo quia absurdum," said Tertullian. Whether or not you like that justification for believing in God, it's a justification that logic can't touch.
A god that does not appeal to my sense of ration is not worth anything but my loathing.

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It's not as if the Romans/Saxons/whoever else were horrible savages before being Christianized, though that idea obviously appeals to some Christians.
I disagree- the Romans/Saxons/etc. were horrible savages before being christianized, and continued to be horrible savages afterwards as well. (Horrible savages just like us.)

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Do you have any idea how patronizing this sounds? It's awful, man. Particularly given that fully 50% of this massive page has become the Synergy Theology Manifesto...
The Synergy Theology Manifesto? More like Synergy's Evening with the Pastor.

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I'm not sure how often any good parent lets scenario one happen or the child lets scenario two happen (at least, not the first several times). I'm thinking there needs to be a third scenario.
3. Parents tell child not to touch a hot stove because it wil burn. Child grows curious, touches hot stove, and gets burned. Child realizes exactly what parent meant.
Way to totally miss the point.

I don't know about the rest of you, but when I was told not to touch a hot stove, I did not touch a hot stove. I did touch a hot curling iron, but I did not know that it was not, nor was I ever told to not touch it. If the rest of you are so stupid that you need to get murdered to know that death is bad, let me know- I'll take pleasure in disembowling each of you in turn.



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quote:
Originally written by Dikiyoba:

Originally by Synergy:

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Children ruling anything is a frightening prospect.
Case in point: Lord of the Flies. Sure, it's fiction. But it's still good.

Originally by TM:
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I find the notion that you have to go through the gauntlet before you can "know good" to be nothing short of defeatist (or at worst, rationalizing) nonsense. For example, two scenarios:
1. A child touches a hot stove and is burned. A child knows not to touch a hot stove.
2. A child is told by a parent not to touch a hot stove so as to not get burned. A child knows not to touch a hot stove.
In both scenarios, the child knows not to touch a hot stove, yet in scenario (2), the child's hand is not burned.
I'm not sure how often any good parent lets scenario one happen or the child lets scenario two happen (at least, not the first several times). I'm thinking there needs to be a third scenario.
3. Parents tell child not to touch a hot stove because it wil burn. Child grows curious, touches hot stove, and gets burned. Child realizes exactly what parent meant.

Dikiyoba asks you never to light fires on beaches and then just to cover the hot ashes with a light layer of sand. Stepping on it barefoot hurts.


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quote:
Originally written by Slartucker:

TM, to your post replying to me: I'm not sure I understand all of your logic. In fact, I'm sure some of it evades me. However, by and large, I agree with your conclusions in that post.

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People who live past infancy tend to have a sense of trust due to providers and caretakers: It is a necessity. (It is my hope that this point isn't particularly difficult to prove...
*nod* certainly true. I just want to point out that the operative word is "tend to"; many people have this sense of trust violated and dismantled due to various forms of neglect, abuse, or victimization, either in childhood or in later life.

Synergy: I think theologizing the debate makes it much harder to come to a point of understanding.

(The following quotes are all from TM's reply to Synergy)
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The notion of humanity is growing is as Hegelian as it is absurd. We've been regressing so steadily that it's mind-boggling.
Of course. But certainly growth and regression can take place side by side.

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So He has Righteously Decapitated His Arm and Hoped for It to Turn into a Magnificent Bicep of Righteousness?
Quoted for making me laugh my ass off.

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You have so many images of this deity; it's mind-boggling... It's like a roller-coaster.
But I think that's the point. I don't have the level of faith (philosophically, even) that Synergy appears to have. However, the point of religion is not that it's common sense and it's logically provable. The point is that it's not. "Credo quia absurdum," said Tertullian. Whether or not you like that justification for believing in God, it's a justification that logic can't touch.

(Synergy)
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We all desire to be loved and admired and appreciated by others... I think these three simple things are the most basic universal needs...
Honestly, this does sound more like a description of an ENFJ than of humanity ;)

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the paradigm shift that began when Christianity first spread. The ground typically has to be ploughed to plant new crops. I think it can be argued, that despite the horrible mixture and many offenses and harms that the institution of Christendom has inflicted in the world, it has also improved the lot of many over the last 2000 years
Paradigm shift??? The idea that Christianity is drastically different from from religions that predate it is an idea that obviously appeals to Christians. Many religions push similar ideas. I'm sorry, but that's a very subjective thing to say and I don't buy it. So is the argument Christendom has "improved the lot of many." The historical record simply doesn't support that. It's not as if other religions don't include the idea of charity. It's not as if the Romans/Saxons/whoever else were horrible savages before being Christianized, though that idea obviously appeals to some Christians.

Synergy, I think what you've forgotten to reiterate here, and what is making people jump on you, is that you are just stating your opinion, not presenting a logical case, and you don't expect everyone else to agree with you. At least I hope that's the case. If not, OY.

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You shouldn’t until you do. When you do, you’ll know why, and I’ll be delighted to hear about it. I can’t tell you why, and yours will not look quite the same as mine anyway. It’s not based on merit. It largely has to do with just how many people are growing up in their spiritual maturity enough to get into gear more effectively expressing God
Do you have any idea how patronizing this sounds? It's awful, man. Particularly given that fully 50% of this massive page has become the Synergy Theology Manifesto...

I have to agree with TM that your spirituality appears to be "emotionally-fueled." There's nothing wrong with that... HOWEVER, trying to explain it using logic is not a good idea.


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Originally written by Semodius:

Dude, too much up there to read... From what I did manage to get through this early in the morning, well done, Prometheus.

I'm gonna go dance barefoot in a meadow now, happy with my morally strong atheism.

Until the police get me, bloody capital-centric conservative Christians.


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Originally written by Synergy:

[b]
quote:
Originally written by Khoth:
If I was a parent I wouldn't let some children die to prove a point to the others.
Perhaps we are fixated on physical suffering and physical death as the worst (and permanent) experiences and fates to be had, and that nothing could make such suffering worthwhile. Is either actually true? The nature of God suggests it cannot be true or it negates the nature of Love, Wisdom, being a good Father, and many more things.

There is somewhere we are all heading toward through all of this wretchedness which is a much more hopeful and joyful and fulfilling end than we have yet known. The way this can be said with any surety is by knowing by experience something of the nature and faithfulness of God and believing the rest of His promises yet unfulfilled. But the promises aren’t even necessary when you come to understand what the character of love does.

I didn’t mean to negate any of the fine points you made about the diversity of peoples in both the east and west and practical nature of the conflicts. I agree with your points. There are many layers to pretty much anything, and I was painting the picture from a very general level. Maybe it wasn’t a good analogy.

...

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Originally written by So Incredibly Sad:

Synergy, I think I understand your position, having seen worse inferred from luke 17:21 and such…
“nor shall they say, Lo, here; or lo, there; for lo, the reign (Kingdom) of God is within you.'

Are looking for an earthly kingdom with an earthly king as the Jews were, or a celestial valhalla in the sky as the Christians and Muslims anticipate? What good is the rule of God/Love if it is not first within us? If it is not within us, then it is the compulsion of an external law, as in the Old Testament, and we shall forever fall upon its blade.

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Growing ? You will need to back that up for the discussion.
As a sidenote, you can hurry the process.

I mean that because humanity is growing in its spiritual experience and understanding, it doesn’t have to go back to a Mosaic law or earlier baby steps like black/white thinking and rewarder/punisher views of God which were instrumental in their time and served their purpose. I’m speaking from the Christian perspective primarily, because I am most acquainted with knowing God through it, but I don’t discount any other spiritual way God has communicated Himself to and in humanity in other times and places. I think everyone’s on to something, some part of the truth and knowing. The typical error is to assume someone’s something is to be everyone’s everything.

The natural world is seen to parallel spiritual principle and realities. We understand something of God’s role as “Father” by knowing earthly fathers. We know something of how spiritual growth is to proceed by observing the laws of natural growth. The universe is ordered this way to be specifically instrumental to our understanding of spiritual qualities invisibly behind all things. Things grow up according to the blueprint within them and the nurturing/nutrients to enable it.

[quote]
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Originally written by Synergy:

We won’t fail ultimately though, because we are made out of the heart and nature of God at our deepest core, a place I think nothing can touch or displace. That is the claim and promise He has on us as His creation.
And what if we aren't ? As for the rules and teaching, which source(s) should we favor ? Promises engage only those which believe in them.

Well, the cool thing I know about God is He keeps His promises even when we don’t believe into them. He does stuff on behalf of His children ultimately despite themselves. Kids are immature, foolish, selfish, and wayward in so many ways. Any good parent does many good things on their behalf despite what the kid thinks or believes about any of it. God doesn’t expect us to act like more than kids while we’re still kids. Spiritually speaking, part of our immaturity has been imagining all kinds of false and simplistic things about Dad and why He does what He does.

As for what we are to follow, I could only say listen to your deepest heart and see where that leads. As for a stated law, we know it’s “Love God with all your heart, and love your neighbor as yourself.” The rule is to be from within, and not from without by external law.

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From observation, three emotions drives humanity : lust, greed and hate. If that is anything like your "God" I will continue striving toward being a logical biological machinery.
Do you see nothing of love and self-sacrifice in humanity? You don’t see our noble heights along with our deepest depths? Have you never known anyone who struck you with the kindness or gentleness or positiveness of their spirit?

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Originally written by Synergy:

If we seek to usurp authority which we are not yet mature enough to wield, Father does have ways to keep heady children from getting too far ahead of themselves.
Well, too bad he didn't use his ways before.
[/quote]We have our bounds, even when they are invisible to us. The child knows his bounds when he runs into them. It usually hurts.

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Originally written by Synergy:

We all desire to be loved and admired and appreciated by others.
Not all ascetics are hypocrits. That doesn't mean they are sane but it is a counter-example.
[/quote]I still say at the deepest core of being, the ascetist has an essence which requires these things for ultimate fulfillment of his being. It’s okay to be an ascetist and it has its rewards and virtues I’m sure. But the ascetist typically disparages the world to the degree that he has little interaction with human beings as well, and I’d say he’s not doing anyone much good remaining an ascetist for long.

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Originally written by Synergy:

I think these three simple things are the most basic universal needs we each have, and where these are frustrated or denied is where we get unhealthy and hurtful.
Sorry, even Maslow seems more accurate to me.
[/quote]Maslow began with biological needs. I’m not talking about the human body. I’m talking about the human soul. What I stated is my own personal reduction. I don’t think anyone denies the need for love. The degree of care and acceptance communicated by touch alone to a baby greatly affects its physical and psychological well-being in development.

To be admired is another way of saying we have something worthwhile to offer in ourselves. It speaks to the humanistic idea of intrinsic human value, not based on performance but on mere quality. We all have something attractive and potent about us and desire to be acknowledged and valued for it. We might have to look deeper than we are accustomed or like to see it.

To be appreciated is to say not only do we have some capacity or quality that is worthwhile and beautiful, but that we have effectively done something helpful for others with our strengths. We’re designed to flourish when we learn to interconnect and give out of our talents on behalf of others.

I think every person has these needs and the potential for them to be fulfilled.[/b][/quote]

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Originally written by So Incredibly Sad:

Synergy, I think I understand your position, having seen worse inferred from luke 17:21 and such…

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Originally written by Synergy:

I don’t see a greater God behind humanity. I see a great God expressing through and as humanity in a tightly-knit relationship. The difference is humanity is still in its spiritual childhood and hasn’t learned to put aside selfish and foolish things yet. I see it growing up though, as the law of life and growth demands. Children do grow up, and you can’t hurry the process.
Growing ? You will need to back that up for the discussion.
As a sidenote, you can hurry the process.

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Originally written by Synergy:

We won’t fail ultimately though, because we are made out of the heart and nature of God at our deepest core, a place I think nothing can touch or displace. That is the claim and promise He has on us as His creation.
And what if we aren't ? As for the rules and teaching, which source(s) should we favor ? Promises engage only those which believe in them.

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Originally written by Synergy:

I think the point in loving God is that it can only truly be done in context of having some sort of personal experience/knowing of Him in relationship, rather than by knowing about Him. This is by definition an internal personal experience demonstrable to anyone else only by the manner in which it effects change in us and expresses outward from us, as us. God expresses as us, not as something moving in to possess us.
From observation, three emotions drives humanity : lust, greed and hate. If that is anything like your "God" I will continue striving toward being a logical biological machinery.

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Originally written by Synergy:


I believe a man like Martin Luther King does what he does because he has connected with that spiritual nature and vision in some way.

Or perhaps because he wanted more (rights/comfort/…).

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Originally written by Synergy:

The very nature of being human is to be of the divine family with its capacities as we grow into them. We can’t do it as independent children who have departed from the resources and protection of the Father. We have to learn to work as family.
I am very strongly reminded of a Calvin and Hobbes strip.

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Originally written by Synergy:

If we seek to usurp authority which we are not yet mature enough to wield, Father does have ways to keep heady children from getting too far ahead of themselves.
Well, too bad he didn't used his ways before.

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Originally written by Synergy:

The father knows the rules are for the protection of the child, but the child chafes at the boundaries, seeing them only as something to get in the way of his self-centric desires and whims.
The child doesn't know the boundaries so how could it see them as an obstacle ?

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Originally written by Synergy:

We all desire to be loved and admired and appreciated by others.
Not all ascetics are hypocrits. That doesn't mean they are sane but it is a counter-example.

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Originally written by Synergy:

I think these three simple things are the most basic universal needs we each have, and where these are frustrated or denied is where we get unhealthy and hurtful.
Sorry, even Maslow seems more accurate to me.


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