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Originally written by chicho:

why a lot of people here never kissed, how old are you, at least im just 15.i hope you kiss soon and that you not be too old or some bad people will consider you as losers and freaks
I'm 20, and have never kissed because I have yet to meet anyone I have strong feelings for. If everything goes to plan, I'll go through my life never having kissed more than one girl.

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Originally written by Ash Lael:

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Originally written by chicho:

why a lot of people here never kissed, how old are you, at least im just 15.i hope you kiss soon and that you not be too old or some bad people will consider you as losers and freaks
I'm 20, and have never kissed because I have yet to meet anyone I have strong feelings for. If everything goes to plan, I'll go through my life never having kissed more than one girl.

Good luck with that. And that's not sarcasm, I mean it.

The only advice I can give is don't be in a rush.

I've always looked at relationships as golf; low score is win.

Well, "always" is a strong word, but at least for as long as I've given the issue serious thought. ;)

Actually, I can also give another bit of advice... "don't settle".

Follow your heart. Take your time. It's worth it.

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quote:
Originally written by Ash Lael:

quote:
Originally written by chicho:

why a lot of people here never kissed, how old are you, at least im just 15.i hope you kiss soon and that you not be too old or some bad people will consider you as losers and freaks
I'm 20, and have never kissed because I have yet to meet anyone I have strong feelings for. If everything goes to plan, I'll go through my life never having kissed more than one girl.

dont worry,it will came sometime, its almosts inevitable.
all the people have their way with other sex.
me personally im not that deep in feelings, im more like a "come here baby".
in fact im about to dump my girlfriend cause i dont like her, instead i like a 14 years old girl, my actual girlfriend is older than me.
but you consider you as a timid person, you party and such?

[ Sunday, October 09, 2005 18:34: Message edited by: chicho ]

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Originally written by Muji:

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Originally written by Ash Lael:

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Originally written by chicho:

why a lot of people here never kissed, how old are you, at least im just 15.i hope you kiss soon and that you not be too old or some bad people will consider you as losers and freaks
I'm 20, and have never kissed because I have yet to meet anyone I have strong feelings for. If everything goes to plan, I'll go through my life never having kissed more than one girl.

Good luck with that. And that's not sarcasm, I mean it.

The only advice I can give is don't be in a rush.

I've always looked at relationships as golf; low score is win.

Well, "always" is a strong word, but at least for as long as I've given the issue serious thought. ;)

Actually, I can also give another bit of advice... "don't settle".

Follow your heart. Take your time. It's worth it.

Totally agree. Worrying about being kissed is something which only 15 years old and below do. Age certainly does not matter. A kiss by someone who you care is so much valuable then hundreds of kisses with people you just made out to do so (not out of real care).
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Aw, gee. Supportive comments make me feel so warm and fuzzy. :P

EDIT: And uh, no Chico, I'm not at all timid. Which is quite fortunate, considering my line of work. :P

[ Monday, October 10, 2005 15:25: Message edited by: Ash Lael ]

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I'm 15, but I personally don't care if I ever get kissed or not (not that I want it to never happen, I could just care less if it doesn't).

I wouldn't be surprised, either.

[ Monday, October 10, 2005 16:13: Message edited by: Dmitri Mikea Vorchev ]

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My first kiss was exactly two weeks after I had started dating hubby. I was 14 and stiff liped. He had been bugging me about getting a kiss and I promised that I'd kiss him for our two week anniversary. So November 12th 10:32:17PM with my big sister in attendence as a witness we kissed. Not the most romantic, and quite aukward on my part, but memorable none the least. He actually kissed me three times which I thought wasn't fair since I only said one, but what'cha gonna do?

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That sounds... very official. :P

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That's so fun Jewels. I bet most guys (pimps) can't even remember their first kiss (date wise I'm talking about). Mine was on May 5th, 2001 at 11:40pm.

Edit: I'm Libra, and I'm not sure about Jewels, but mine was at a friends Birthday party. Thus I'm able to recall the date.

[ Monday, October 10, 2005 17:51: Message edited by: Marlenny ]
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Originally written by Jewels:

November 12th 10:32:17PM
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Originally written by Marlenny:

May 5th, 2001 at 11:40pm.
Are you both Virgos?

Or is it just a "girl thing", remembering the exact time of your first kiss?

I ask because I knew a girl (the "best friend" from my first kiss scenario, actually) that had an extremely disturbingly good memory about dates (not just for first kisses), and she was a Virgo.

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I know a blind 11 year old girl with a positively frightening memory.

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Originally written by Marlenny:

That's so fun Jewels. I bet most guys (pimps) can't even remember their first kiss (date wise I'm talking about). Mine was on May 5th, 2001 at 11:40pm.
I sort of remember mine. It was at about 8:30pm, but things got a little hazy after that. Alcohol, you know.

Ash — A lot of blind people have that ability. I know one like that.

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Ask me in a year and it may have happened. Trust me, but I am very popular amoung the girls. I do not know why, though. :confused: I think Sanna has gotten a crush on me. She is a close friend of mine and when she saw the photo of Christina, she sort of freezed, stared at the picture and looked quite sad. The problem is, I like her a lot too. Christ, being a teenager is such a pain! Emotions are so big, strong, powerful and then they just disappear and you are in a drama, jes's...

EDIT: Well, I should talk about it with them and sort things out. You have to be honest, you know.

[ Monday, October 10, 2005 22:35: Message edited by: Eagle, the author soul ]

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I guess having numerous females ticked off with you is part of being a teenager as well, so go for it. Otherwise, you might want to rethink your policy in the light of irrationality.

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Uh ... hasn't happened yet.

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As a youth, I was portly and continue to this day to have a naggingly poor self-image. I was bearded, scruffy, a joker in public but an intensely shy and private young man. I had crushes on many women, never reciprocated or even expressed. Given how I form crushes, at least half of them have to have been reciprocal. By the time I had realized this, I was already in a relationship; by the time I was out of it, they had been scattered to disparate ends of the nation by their various college paths, and I will probably never see any of them again.

I met a girl at a party. Forensics-team-sponsored. A little withdrawn, didn't really enjoy the happy dancing of the other kids there. I didn't either. We talked and talked. She told me she planned to stay here. I planned to go to college in Oregon. I left the party feeling more lonely and alone than ever.

Over a Forensics trip, she and I had a few bonding experiences. We talked. She sat next to me. She was after me, but I was basically blind to that sort of thing: I thought of myself as a grotesque who would only wind up in a relationship as the product of someone else's magnanamity.

I got her screen-name. I didn't remember it. She got mine. She misspelled it. We went some months without contacting one another.

April: the prom was approaching, and naturally I had no plans. We had recently established AIM contact. She asked me out, and I told her she could probably go out with anyone she wanted. (It was germane at the time.) She said she wanted to go out with me. She didn't know if we were just friends or a couple yet.
The resulting tizzy was all-consuming. She tried without much success to teach me to dance. I got a tux, we got matching flowers. The day of the big event - we were with another couple, the girl a friend of hers - we ate dinner, got horribly lost on the way to the dance, and had to duck out after two minutes of mingling to go to the Blue Man show. The show was over and we went to her place to hang out, the four of us. Then out into her backyard.

It had been May Day for half an hour. We were relaxing on a swing-seat, the other couple on the nearby ground. Beautiful night. I don't remember who kissed who.
'You're the first girl I've ever kissed, you know.'
'Wow. Yeah.' Something like pity and contempt, softened by veiled lust. 'I suppose so.' I could tell, she meant. Maybe that's what she said; my memory wasn't what it was.

It was short, inexpert, and lead to more, less short and less awkward, as first kisses often do. I wasn't a social animal; this was the closest I had ever been to a woman. The early morning of May Day progressed as such early mornings are wont, me half-tuxed and her changed into pajamas that only remained half-worn. 'I guess this is a first for you too, huh?' She realized after a moment how strikingly impolite a thing this is to say to someone engaged in pawing at you. She regretted it. I am blessed with a thick skin, so I took it in stride. More a harbinger of things to come to me now.

The evening was lovely, and I remembered it for a while. We explained away my absence into the early hours to my parents as 'playing Halo'. This became a running euphemism.

We didn't get far enough to escape 'making out' for a couple of weeks. Never came to the beast of two backs, but passably close.

There was something ingenuine about the entire affair. She shied away from any physical affection in public. She hated almost everything about the way I arranged my life when left to my own devices: that I did not take the initiative in working on necessities, in dressing nice, in hanging out with people for no reason. The fruit of that languid evening became a series of bitter fights punctuated by ingenuine make-ups and passive-aggressive avoidance. She would not answer my calls.

On my birthday, she invited me to hang out at her house. I had very nearly cancelled my dinner plans with my family in expectations of her planning something earlier. We watched Saturday Night Live and then she ejected me. It was an empty house. She promised me we'd so something more entertaining next week when she got back from her summer job in the mountains. She kissed me. An empty promise. That was the last time. Then came the dark times of August.

There is another woman I met before this one. Sister of a friend, member in good standing of the high-school poetry club. Nice, sweet as one could ask for. I found her attractive. That seemed to be a rare opinion. Beautiful eyes and a constant warm smile, short, a little pudgy. She was a year older than me, and went to college a year before me. After the breakup I was inconsolable, but I had a plan.

I asked her out. It was the 27th. We went to some relatively expensive restaurant in an upscale commercial center. After that, we walked. Walked through a casino. Talked like old friends, although we hadn't exchanged words but once all of the last year. It slowly dawned on me that she wasn't who I remembered. Shyer, possessed of a beautiful personality and dancing eyes. I was in love again.

We wound up behind a dark window in a part of the casino where the only activity was passing limousines. We talked more, about everything. We took a photograph with her camera. There was about half an hour left before we were to be picked up. I asked her what she was thinking. From what I remember of my internal monologue on May Day, it must have been difficult. Like showing the first thing you ever wrote to your most vicious critic, your heart and soul to a stranger.
'Do you want to kiss me?'
'Sure.' Automatic. I kissed her. Short, with the lips. A little awkward, but leading to more and less awkward. The tongue, she later told me, was a surprise. There were teeth: took getting used to, but not uncomfortable much. Smaller mouth. Took adapting.

'Wow.' We chuckled the sort of happy chuckle this situation calls for. We continued kissing for some time. When we were done - with a few minutes left in what was then, I suppose, officially a date, she told me that I was her first kiss. I could tell.

You can always tell if it's theirs. She was shy, new to the idea of a relationship. Maybe I could have said, 'I suppose so', simultaneously honored to be her first and in contempt of her for not starting sooner.
Maybe I could have said nothing at all - left it hanging there, so she could supply whatever she wanted to come next.

'Really?'

In a just world, neither of us would have been alone as long as we were. Surprise should have been the only reasonable response. Maybe that isn't how it is in practice; maybe it's perfectly reasonable to assume someone so shy and so completely wondrous has spent her life alone - and someone who is shallow and vindictive but has been taught early the gospel of self-advancement had her first kiss in the sixth grade.
But for me, that was a first. Some affection could overcome the dark mumblings of the pragmatic.

'Yeah.'
'How was it?'
'Amazing.'

And we've been together since then. Maybe someday we'll be separated. Maybe someday I'll hate her or she'll hate me like me and the first one do. Maybe we'll look back at this time in our lives and hate every moment we now take as fond and happy.

Could happen. It's happened to me before. If it does, I hope she gets out of it what I got out of mine: you aren't born to be alone. People like you, and they're not doing you a favor by going out with you. She deserves it. So do we all. Sometimes I'm afraid I'm hurting her, because I don't know if going out or breaking up taught me that I was worth having. I really hope it's the former. I don't want her to have what I had before we came together that August day.

And that's me and kissing. I hope the subject treats you as well as it does me, or maybe better. The world needs more of it. Just remember not to get jaded, I guess.
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Wow! Now that's a first post! Welcome to Spiderweb and leave your sanity at the door, as is customarily said here.

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That sounds... very official.
I can't really take credit. Chris is the one who took notice of when we started dating (Oct. 29 10:32:17pm. 1994) and he is the one who sat watching his watch on our two week anniversary counting down the seconds until I had to fulfill my promise. I wouldn't know were it not for him. And I am a Leo. Rrrawrr. :)

[ Tuesday, October 11, 2005 12:58: Message edited by: Jewels ]

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I really don't think it will come as a surprise that Kogar here has yet to have a kiss. However, I have turned down offers, being a romantic of sorts deep down, and the offers didn't come from girls that I had any feelings for.
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I was going to quote Belisarius, but that's a large post right there.

Belisarius- That was such a romantic story. You're still together. right? What's her name?
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Practice makes things seem more than average. That is all. ;)

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quote:
Originally written by Marlenny:

I was going to quote Belisarius, but that's a large post right there.

Belisarius- That was such a romantic story. You're still together. right? What's her name?

A gentleman never kisses and tells.

(I'm sorry, I'm a little dicey about names - I've had some weeeird experiences on the Internet.)

As for your other question, yes.

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Originally written by Marlenny:

I was going to quote Belisarius, but that's a large post right there.

Belisarius- That was such a romantic story.

Ditto. It's beautiful, warm, romantic. I hope I'm not being overly dramatic here, but it made me shed a tear. And I hope my experiences are similar to those in that post.

To the others... I thinks we gots a good new 'un here!

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Why not during college?

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